December 2022 What ‘essence’ are you seeking?
WHAT “essence” are you seeking this wintry season?
OR, what essence is seeking YOU?
Or, are you in your process, healing in your most pure and perfect pattern, at a pace that is just right for you? Are there parts of you opening up? Showing up? Some parts you may be proud of, others not so much - and then there are the parts you may be learning to reacquaint yourself with, that are worthy of being seen, and deserving of your time and attention to at least notice.
There are many who feel they don’t ‘fit’ in their life. We all deserve to FIT into our Self, although there’s not a specific place we need to fit into. Imagine if what you are trying so hard not to be, is someone you are meant to be?
What shall we DO, how is it we shall BE as this season of longer nights of darkness are enfolding us? There are choices to make.
· If you were to monitor one weekday in your life what would it look like?
· Is there anytime you make for YOU?
· Are you actively participating in living your life, or merely existing through default?
When we make choices that connect us to our Inner Light….energetic vibration…inner self or being…. WHATEVER YOU WANT TO CALL IT, that is how we come to Know things beyond what the visible outer world can tell us. While we are living amidst such a large-scale changes globally, the unpredictable events that are tragic and horrible, intentional and random – to get through-these-things, is our connection to our inner being, our inner Self, where the calm and clear IS. When we go deep into our Being, there is harmony, there is wisdom, there is forgiveness, there is love, AND there is creativity and imagination. This is how we are able to survive, to thrive, in such an unpredictable world.
We can Be the Change. Creating new beginnings…changing the story, our story about the many endings that rock us to our core. Becoming. It is all about our individual becoming that can change the world. And as we gather our hearts and our minds one to another OR like the spokes in a wheel where we are in circle, that is being in the flow, in the ebb and flow and rhythm of life. Once we can relax into the flow, our natural flow, we notice more consistent ebbs and flows and begin to engage all of our senses – thus delivering us more beauty and awe and wonder as our path unfolds with increasing relief and ease before our eyes.
Clearing away our own debris, makes way for all that we dream of.
That is why it is vital that we understand our intention(s), not misusing or misusing without discipline and focus. Each of us deserves to take off our layers of the personas that have become our life story:
the parts that have masked what we really like,
what we really love,
what we do not like, and
that we can change our mind.
We are human, we are full of contradictions and being a human can be tough.
I invite you this wintry season of long, dark nights to contemplate ‘chilling a little’.
Let go of at least HALF of the to-do’s on your list every day
o things that need to get done, always do get done
Rid yourself forever of doing or being at least 1 thing for self/others
o pay attention to what you are ‘should – ing’ yourself, or automatic pilot
Imagine something beyond your wildest imagination you would like to occur in your life
Let yourself off-the-hook: be okay, satisfied and completely content where you ARE in this-now-moment (daily for 7-8 minutes)
Schedule a monthly ‘appointment/session’ with a Spiritual Wayshower…A Guide, Coach or ‘’concierge’’ who will:
o Listen and validate your choices/motivations, while remaining focused on seeing you whole, and not go down the rabbit hole with you
o Help you recognize the choices that create conflict in you
o Offer coping strategies for self-care, worthiness
o Guide you to find your way, to hear and follow the deep inner whisperings, and walk step by step to your inner rhythm sure-footed and clear-headed
o Inspire you to discover curiosity and the power of play and rest
Who is willing to cross over the threshold one step at a time, one day at a time, toward feeling ‘free’ from the bindings and shackles of old patterns, behaviors and stories?
Put on your BRAVE. Put on your FIERCE